Now available on iOS & Android

Private lists.
Smarter offers.
Your data stays yours.

The name says it all. Aphilaty carries the Greek word for love. It's a place where people love their organizations — and organizations love their members back, with real benefits earned through trust, not surveillance.

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🔒 Zero PII shared with retailers
🛡 Encrypted lists
📱 iOS & Android
🌐 GDPR compliant
Real-time sync

Simple for everyone. Powerful where it matters.

For most people, Aphilaty will simply be the best shared list app they've ever used — a honey-do list that actually gets done, a homework tracker the whole family can see, a grocery run where everyone knows what's already in the cart. That's more than enough. But for those who want more, the rewards start flowing the moment you choose to share.

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Join or create organizations

Connect to your grocery store, school, church, or create a private family group — each with its own color and feed.

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Build shared lists

Create grocery lists, homework trackers, packing lists, or to-dos. Share them with family, friends, or fulfillment partners.

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Choose what to share — or don't

Your lists are private by default. If you choose to share intent signals with retailers, Aphilaty anonymizes them completely before they ever leave your org. You stay invisible. The benefits become real.

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Earn benefits from your everyday needs

When your anonymous signals match a retailer's offer, you receive it — with a note explaining exactly why. Future releases will let competing vendors bid on your list, delivering real savings on things you already need.

One platform. Every community.

Start with the free org tool. Coordinate your team, school, or community without sharing a byte of personal data. When you're ready, unlock the benefits that come from letting trusted organizations serve you better.

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Families & Friend Groups

Coordinate shopping, chores, events, and homework without a dozen separate apps.

  • Shared grocery lists with real-time status dots
  • Family events and calendar sync
  • Private group messaging
  • Recurring items and smart reminders
  • Works across iOS and Android
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Schools

Connect parents, students, and teachers with instant communication and event management.

  • Homework and assignment tracking
  • School event announcements
  • Parent-teacher communication
  • Supply lists with offer matching
  • Immediate delivery for urgent alerts

Churches & Nonprofits

Organize members, coordinate volunteers, and communicate announcements at zero cost.

  • Member announcements and events
  • Volunteer coordination lists
  • Community offer distribution
  • Privacy-first member management
  • Free tier for qualifying nonprofits

Sports & Activity Leagues

Keep players, parents, and coaches aligned with schedules, equipment lists, and updates.

  • Game schedules and location alerts
  • Equipment and uniform checklists
  • Coach-to-parent messaging
  • Carpool coordination
  • Sponsor offer distribution
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Retailers & Brands

Reach customers who actually want your offers — matched by intent, not surveillance.

  • Offer matching based on list intent
  • Zero PII — full privacy compliance
  • Nightly batch or immediate delivery
  • Offer performance analytics
  • White-label branded app option
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Enterprise & White Label

Deploy Aphilaty as your own branded app — your colors, your name, your customer relationship.

  • Fully branded iOS & Android apps
  • Custom domain and identity
  • Dedicated customer success
  • API access for existing systems
  • SLA-backed infrastructure

We built privacy in. Not bolted on.

Most apps sell your data to retailers. Aphilaty does the opposite — your shopping habits and identity are never revealed, even when retailers match offers to your lists.

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    Anonymous offer matching

    Retailers see intent signals — never names, emails, or identities. A one-way cryptographic hash ensures your identity stays yours.

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    No ad tracking. No data brokers.

    Aphilaty has no ad network, no tracking pixels, and no data broker relationships. We make money from subscriptions and transparent matching fees — not your data.

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    Right to deletion

    Delete your account and all your data — lists, events, memberships — is permanently purged within 30 days.

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    GDPR & CCPA compliant

    Built from day one for international privacy standards. Data minimization, purpose limitation, and consent management are core — not afterthoughts.

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What we do collect — plainly stated

We believe you deserve to know exactly what data Aphilaty holds about you. Here it is.

📍 Your approximate location (continuous)
While the app is in use, Aphilaty reads your device location — but only to derive your zip code. We use your zip code to surface relevant local offers and nearby org associations. We do not store GPS coordinates, share your location with any organization, or use location for any purpose beyond local relevance.
🔑 An anonymous App ID
Every install is assigned a random identifier. This is how your lists, events, and offer activity are tied to your account — without a name or email ever being required. No one outside Aphilaty can link your App ID to your real identity unless you choose to make that connection yourself.
🏷 Affinity codes you add to organizations
Some organizations offer an affinity code — a loyalty number, member ID, or club identifier — that you can optionally add when joining their org in Aphilaty. When you add one, that code is passed to the organization alongside your App ID and list activity. The org may use it to connect your Aphilaty activity to your existing membership record in their system. Aphilaty does not perform this linkage, but we cannot prevent it — and we won't pretend otherwise. Adding an affinity code is always your choice, and it means that specific org can identify you. You remain anonymous to all other orgs.
How offer matching works
👤You add "Strawberries" to your grocery list
🔒Aphilaty generates an anonymous intent signal — no name, no email, no identity. Your zip code scopes the offer to your area.
🏪Krueger matches their strawberry offer to the signal
📱You receive the offer — Krueger never learns who you are
The offer reads: "Someone in your household asked for strawberries — Krueger doesn't know who you are."

Everything you need. Nothing you don't.

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Collaborative Lists

Grocery, homework, packing, to-do — shared in real time with status dots showing who's handling what.

Intent-Matched Offers

Offers come to you based on what you actually need — never based on surveillance or purchase history.

Events & Calendar Sync

School events, sports games, community meetings — all synced to your device calendar automatically.

Org Messaging

Rich messages from your organizations — announcements, newsletters, urgent alerts — with read receipts.

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Smart Notifications

Per-org notification controls. Mute offers but keep emergency alerts. You decide what reaches you.

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Recurring Items

Milk every week. Soccer practice every Tuesday. Set it once, and Aphilaty keeps it on your list.

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Multi-Language

Full internationalization support. Content is automatically translated for multilingual communities.

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In-Store Fulfillment

Share your list with a store for direct order fulfillment — with full status tracking from aisle to cart.

What people are saying

"Finally — a grocery app that doesn't try to sell my shopping habits to a data broker. My family loves the shared list status dots."
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Sarah R.
Parent, Lincoln Elementary PTA
"We piloted Aphilaty with our parent community and saw 3× higher offer redemption vs email campaigns — with zero privacy complaints."
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Mike K.
Digital Marketing Director, Regional Grocery Chain
"Our congregation uses Aphilaty for volunteer lists, event sign-ups, and announcements. It replaced five different tools."
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Father Thomas B.
Community Pastor, St. Michael's Parish

Free for individuals. Built for organizations.

Start free. Upgrade when your organization needs more reach, analytics, or a white-label experience.

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  • Unlimited shared lists
  • Real-time collaboration
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  • Offer matching
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  • Unlimited members
  • White-label branded apps
  • API access & webhooks
  • Custom integrations
  • Dedicated success manager
  • SLA & uptime guarantee
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In the news

TechCrunch
"Aphilaty takes on loyalty programs with a privacy-first approach to retail offer matching"
May 2026
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Retail Dive
"How anonymous intent matching is changing the coupon industry — and why retailers are paying attention"
April 2026
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EdTech Magazine
"Aphilaty gives schools a free alternative to bloated parent-communication platforms"
March 2026
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Press inquiries: press@aphilaty.com

Built by people who believe love and loyalty shouldn't cost you your privacy.

The word Aphilaty is rooted in the Greek word for love. We built it around a simple idea: people already love their schools, their churches, their little leagues, their VFW lodges. They just needed a better way to organize around them — one that didn't require handing over their data as the price of admission.

So we built Aphilaty as a free, private organizational tool first. Crowd-solve your team's equipment needs. Coordinate volunteers. Track homework. Manage your family's grocery runs. You never have to share a single piece of shopping data to get full value from the app.

But when you're ready, Aphilaty lets you choose to share your shopping intent — anonymously — with the organizations you already belong to. Retailers see aggregated, anonymous signals. They can manage inventory, prepare relevant offers, and eventually compete for your business in real time. You see the best offer on this week's grocery list. We earn a modest, transparent fee for connecting the two. No ads. No data brokers. No hidden agenda. Just a business model we're proud to explain in plain English.

Privacy by design

Not a checkbox. A foundation.

Radical transparency

You always know what data we have.

Love is the brand

The Greek root of our name. People should love their organizations — and organizations should earn that love back.

Transparent business model

We earn from org subscriptions and anonymous offer matching fees — never from selling your data.

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Ralph Smith
Founder & CEO
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Talia Lorenz
Head of Product
JM
James Marchetti
VP Engineering
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Anika Patel
Head of Partnerships
We're hiring

We're building the team that will bring privacy-first community technology to millions of families and organizations.

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Common questions

We charge organizations — retailers, schools, churches, and businesses — for access to the platform. Personal accounts are free because they make our network valuable. We never sell user data. Ever.

No. Retailers receive anonymous intent signals — they know "someone in a connected org is interested in strawberries" but they never know who. Your name, email, phone number, and identity are never shared.

All your personal data — lists, events, memberships, messages — is permanently deleted within 30 days of account deletion. Anonymous signals (which contain no personal information) are retained for aggregate analytics only.

Yes — and we offer a free tier for qualifying nonprofits, houses of worship, and schools with under 100 members. Contact us to apply for nonprofit pricing.

White-label means deploying Aphilaty under your own brand — your app name, your colors, your logo in the App Store. It's designed for retailers and enterprises who want to own the customer relationship. Most organizations use standard Aphilaty and don't need white-label.

Yes. All list data is encrypted in transit (TLS) and at rest. Access is controlled by Firebase Security Rules — only you and people you explicitly invite can see your lists.

Yes — while the app is running, Aphilaty reads your device location. We immediately reduce it to a zip code, which is used only to make offers and org suggestions locally relevant to you. We do not store GPS coordinates, and your location is never shared with any organization or third party. You can revoke location permission in your device settings at any time; you'll still be able to use Aphilaty, but offers and org discovery will be less geographically precise.

An affinity code is an optional identifier — like a loyalty card number or member ID — that you can add when joining an organization in Aphilaty. It's never required. If you add one, Aphilaty passes that code to the organization along with your App ID and relevant list activity. The organization can use that code to connect your Aphilaty activity to your existing record in their own system. We cannot prevent that linkage, and we want you to know it happens. The benefit is that the org can credit your loyalty account, apply member pricing, or recognize you as an existing customer. The trade-off is that specific org can identify you. Every other org you belong to still sees only your anonymous App ID.

Absolutely not. Aphilaty is a fully featured organizational tool — lists, events, messages, and coordination — with no data sharing required. Sharing shopping intent with retailers is entirely opt-in, per organization, and can be toggled off at any time in Privacy Settings.

Two ways — both transparent. First, organizations (schools, churches, retailers) pay a monthly subscription to use the admin platform. Second, when anonymous intent signals result in a successful offer match, we earn a small matching fee from the retailer. The retailer pays for access to an audience that actually wants what they're selling. You stay completely anonymous. We think that's a fair deal — and we're happy to say so plainly.

Our roadmap includes competitive offer bidding — letting multiple retailers bid on your anonymous shopping list so you receive the best available price on items you already need. We're also building inventory integration so retailers can match offers in real time based on what's actually in stock, and same-day delivery fulfillment directly through the app. The goal is to make your existing shopping habits work harder for you — without you doing anything different.

Ready to get started?

Whether you're downloading the app, exploring Aphilaty for your organization, or interested in enterprise partnerships — we'd love to hear from you.

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General inquiries

hello@aphilaty.com

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Press & media

press@aphilaty.com

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Enterprise & partnerships

enterprise@aphilaty.com

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